Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Become Your Dream!!!

I’ve lived on the Upper East Side for about a year and a half now. Throughout this time, I’ve continually stumbled upon the following message:

“Become Your Dream”

Someone writes these words throughout my neighborhood… sometimes with chalk on the sidewalk, or sometimes in magic marker on old pieces of furniture that have been thrown out with the trash on the street. The words are usually accompanied by the drawing of a little fishy. Below are a few examples of what I’ve seen over the past year and a half…


















Every time I stumble across this phrase, I feel inspired and empowered. I feel as though this message is written specifically to me. It may sound a bit crazy, but I’ve even wondered to myself if other people can even see the words or if it’s all just a vision taking place in my head.

So today, I googled “Become Your Dream” and I discovered that I’m not the first person to stumble across these messages written all throughout the Upper East Side. I found out that the concept began with an artist named James De La Vega. The origin of the fishy is from an image that De La Vega continually uses in his artwork depicting a fish jumping out from its fish bowl. It seems that De La Vega has been responsible for writing thought-provoking words all throughout the city for a number of years. There is even a museum of his work in the East Village. I don’t believe that all of the writings are necessarily written by De La Vega. In fact, I would wager that a number of people become inspired by his message and take initiative to spread the word on their own. How cool would it be if this movement really took off? Imagine kids, in neighborhoods all throughout the country writing on the sidewalk and on trashcans: “Become Your Dream!” I wonder if it was De La Vega’s dream to inspire and motivate others to become their dream… If so, his dream is really coming true!

This message has truly inspired me to take action and to become my dream! So I’m going to do it! Now, I just need to figure out what my dream is…

I know I want to become my dream, the hard part is trying to figure out which dream to choose. One thing is for sure- I can’t wait around much longer trying to figure it out! So, I’ve decided… I’m giving myself just until the New Year before I make a concrete decision to go after something specific.

To be continued…

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Inspiration

Hey yall!!!

After taking a short break, I’m writing again! I’ve been super busy and somewhat not myself for the past month or two. At first, I wanted to write saying that I hadn’t been feeling inspired to write. You know how sometimes you hear writers or artists say that they’re not feeling inspired, and so they go for a while without producing anything? Well, what I just realized is that inspiration doesn’t always come looking for me; sometimes I have to go out and find it myself! It is so important for me to seek out inspiration and to keep myself motivated because if I want to be inspired I will find something inspirational. But, if I’m not open to being inspired I might just overlook some pretty amazing things!

Right now, I’m inspired by an article on Personal Excellence written by Mary Kay, the founder of Mary Kay Cosmetics. I read this about a week ago, and I keep on going back to it and re-reading it to myself. She’s really onto something! The following are some suggestions that she offers on how to achieve success:

IMAGINE YOURSELF SUCCESSFUL. Always picture yourself successful. Visualize the person you desire to become.

REFLECT ON YOUR PAST SUCCESSES. Every success be it large or small, is proof that you are capable of achieving more successes. Celebrate each success. You can recall it when you begin to lose faith in yourself.

SET DEFINITE GOALS. (In my opinion, this is both the most difficult and most important suggestion!) Have a clear direction of where you want to go. Be aware when you begin to deviate from those goals and take immediate corrective action.

RESPOND POSITIVELY TO LIFE. Develop a positive self image. Your image, your reactions to life and your decisions are completely within your control.